after taking a day to be overwhelmed

I decided to dive right into my emails from single men.  I swear I have a steel trap memory but for the life of me I can not recall this first guy's name to even have to use a made up one to protect the innocent!!  We will just call him Adam.  Very nice looking and originally from Wichita, KS.  One odd tidbit was he took diet pills not available anywhere retail and he tanned daily, yet he had not had sex or a girlfriend in 3 years!!!  Very attracted yet short.  He was the first one I chatted with and met for dinner at Farmhouse.