How about we start at the beginning????

I met my ex husband in November of 1995 and was immediately smitten. We were both working at Bergan Mercy Hospital....me as an employee and he as a worker for Miller Electric, who were contractors there. I saw him on and off for about 2 months and finally I asked my friend Joyce who worked in Engineering to get me his name. Oh boy did I so not know the type of last name to expect!!! Dutch, 12 letters and impossible NOT to mispronounce. However his name was Mike and that is fairly easy to remember!!
Fast forward about a week and I was walking to the cafeteria to have lunch and there he was walking in the same hallway carrying a vacuum. Before I could panic or even think twice about it I said, "Hi Mike". He looked at me with surprise as if to say....."hmmm wow she knows my name and must dig me". Later that day he waited for me to be alone at my desk and asked if I'd like to go to dinner sometime. SCORE!!